I am getting notices to confirm friends, but when I go to Friends, it says: We couldn't find any friends to display... Where am I supposed to confirm? please rsvp to chossid at gmail dot com -- Thanks so much!

There should be two boxes; one saying accept, the other decline...

go to your home page. you will see a link saying 1 friend request (or more). click on that link. it will take you to a page where it shows the picture of the person and their request. there is a box to click for 'accept'.