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Great work!!! Wonderful idea!!! Congratulate!!! You are creative!!!
kopackukac · 2008-05-08: 00:22
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Great set stunning work {{0}}
slowpete · 2008-05-08: 01:05
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Lovely post. Don't give up.
Lynda · 2008-05-08: 01:46
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great set, perfect composition and work!!
mireanna · 2008-05-08: 02:21
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A wonderful set once again Lisa. There are certainly no signs of shrivelling up in your photographic persona! Don't worry about it Lisa - your beauty is obvious to us all ;)
kangshung · 2008-05-08: 02:21
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nice post!
nasser · 2008-05-08: 02:43
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Your honesty is compelling, Lisa, and so refreshing. The beauty, pain and polarisation is so evident in these shots - they are laid out, open, bare and expressive, and almost indignant. It's not easy to be so open, about something that clearly hurts you, and is a constant source of puzzlement and frustration. I don't know what it's like to be nearing 40 and to be alone. I know what it's like to be alone, and it has a lot of positives, but equally, as many negatives. What I like is that in your words, you don't equate your worth to being with someone, or in a relationship. Rather, you say that experience has maybe left you jaded. It's not easy to let go of hurt. And it's not easy to be alone. I don't think you could ever give up, even if you wanted to. For all we know, that person could be waiting just around the corner for you, to walk into their lives. xoxo
Peche · 2008-05-08: 05:07
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Nice post, but sad... You are an amazing photographer and from what I know of you on the blog, a great person! Don't give up on the right person coming into your life, as Jess (Peche) says, you never know!
etodd80 · 2008-05-08: 10:38
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Geez Lisa, these photos are so beautifully done and represent well your captions below them. That being said, I must add my two cents... Beautiful song, but not true! "Wishing wounds the heart", naaa don't agree. Wishes, hopes and dreams are a vital part of life, keep wishing, and dreaming! Age 40 and no roses yet, not a problem. I would rather be 40 and not have recieved roses, than 51 with a stinking dried rose garden that means nothing! Indifferent! I can't stand indifferent...a dear friend of mine once ( ok many times ) told me I should read this book. This comes from a mans point of view and I think he's right on. Holy smokes, the "Mr. Needy's" of the world. Again my "dear friend" could speak to this too. The only thing "needed" is for the Mr. Needy's to MOVE ON. When it's love you'll know it, you won't have to wonder.. I understand Morgan's assessment. My older son is also wise beyond his years, frightening at times but usually right on! Be mindful that patiencs is usually not a youthful trait, they want things for us right now! Feelings of shriveling, fading and shattering and what to do: You do exactly what you are doing. You give them a name, a space and then you are able to move through them. The way I see it, nice girls don't finish last. Nice girls don't do sprints, we're the ones doing the full blown marathon. Keep your wishes, hopes and dreams in front of you and head for that finish line! You're already so far ahead of the pack it's not even funny. Obviously this post struck a cord. Perhaps I should start a blog called Pattyb's thoughts...whether you want them or not! ; )) I say...you go girl!!! You're talented, beautiful, open, honest, plus you own a cheeky attack cat to keep you grounded! ; )
pattyb · 2008-05-08: 11:17
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beautiful.i especially love the last one, with the scattered petal and with the caolour washed out..................lovely.
fionarobinson · 2008-05-08: 14:33
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how could I say anything different from the comments above? great shots!!! :)
ronin53 · 2008-05-08: 15:16
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I'm convinced that your photography will get you to know interesting people. After all, portraits deal with people and your talent is charming. I'm glad to read that your age doesn't bother you: It will make you even more beautiful.
Madoc · 2008-05-08: 15:31
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unas imagenes muy buena comp@
gasparmorales · 2008-05-08: 15:52
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wonderful set, love all of them very good work
Mertxe · 2008-05-08: 16:40
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you have a love he is always there love is there inside you it is for giving smile and feel the joy
sunshineand · 2008-05-08: 18:56
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I like the moods of this set expression. The last one is very special!
7matrix · 2008-05-08: 18:59
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Expressive photos and captions. Expresses, like all your work, your depth and beauty. For my two cents worth, I think there is a dimension to us deeper than our emotional ups and downs, age, etc. This dimension is evident in your work and even in your pain.
rolpa · 2008-05-08: 19:19
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Wonderful post for a sad mood !
jendayee · 2008-05-08: 19:20
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What stirring photos. I can completely relate to these emotions -- I really can. We are stronger, more beautiful, more resilient than these tender petals though -- and of such immensely greater value. Cherish these days, even the painful ones, because Love has not given up.
turndaround · 2008-05-08: 20:07
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OH PA-Leeze!! 40 and no man?? I didn't get married until I turned 40. Didn't date any man until I was 39 1/2 Soon we will be celebrating our 5th wedding anniversary! Oh dear now you know how old/young I really am!! Hang in there kiddo I know what you are going thru. Now I get the... really this is your 1st marriage question and I say yes it is!!! I think you are awesome and the time will come when you are to have a mate! Never thought I would get married.. You have great talent and you do have a great sense of humor! And oh that Spike he keeps you on your toes!! Live life and let it be! I had to find a man that would give me hiking trips and bike rides I am not a flower girl. More memories in hiking,biking and camping. Who ever wises up and snaps you up will be the happiest man on earth and the most blessed man too!!
SheriJ · 2008-05-08: 21:20
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Beautiful flowers. I send you some words from a song : "don't give up 'cos you have friends don't give up you're not beaten yet don't give up I know you can make it good." Keep the faith.
noptek · 2008-05-08: 22:37
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...absolutely lovely words...good post....
curlyq60 · 2008-05-08: 23:04
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Beautiful photos, but I want to second SheriJ's remark. I didn't discover my now-husband until after 40. Shriveled up? I think not! Only if you continue to accept some society "norm" or what someone (obviously no one on this blog!) has told you will you shrivel. Get over it, get out there, take more incredible photos. Show that passion. Shrivel, indeed. Hmmmph.
LastFrontier · 2008-05-09: 03:02
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hey,,u are a jewel,,, we are not used to see diamonds ,,it is only a question of time that u shine the way u want...wonderful shots!!
TIM927 · 2008-05-09: 13:31
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Lisa, I have never met you, but through photoblog you seem such a beautiful and caring soul. Be happy with you and your life and if a man comes along, then sobeit. 40?! Your life is just beginning... :) Beautiful work as ever. The last shot is wonderful...has an autumn feel to it.
Emma · 2008-05-09: 14:44
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I bet that there are a number of over forty women out there who are talented, filled with creative fervor, vibrant, loving, and fun to be with who haven't met the right man or woman. I'm also certain that there are scads of women in loveless relationships. You are on a new path—regarding your photography — and who knows where that road leads.
photopoet · 2008-05-09: 14:54
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Listen my sweet Lisa . love has a way of coming about when you least expect it .. and what photopoet said about on a new path ...it is often change that brings change in our lives ..I have to be honest Lisa ..this did make me cry .. but for many different reasons..mostly because I know how wondereful you are and how much you have to offer someone.. love ,hugs, and tons of warm days of sunshine and wine to you.. do not ever ever give up.. I really feel you are on a new path and alot of people don't know til thier 40's who they are ..what they want to do ect... one of my good friends just got married at 47 .. and she is so happy ... and feels young ect.. hugs and xo to you sweetie and thanks for being able to be open and share you feelings ..
artbug · 2008-05-10: 11:31
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I'd like to echo what the others have said - your romantic life is far from over. I met my husband at 38, and married at 39. Before that, I didn't have a single date for seven years - by choice. I spent those seven years having a wonderful time, and by the time I met my husband, I was such a contented person, he said it made me even more attractive to him. I know several other women who married for the first time after 40 - so don't give up! In the meantime, do what makes you happy. And remember, being single is always better than wishing you were. :)
ncshutterbug · 2008-05-10: 12:09
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i love this post! don't give up! your prince will come on a white horse and sweep you off of your feet before you know it :D
jwideman · 2008-05-11: 21:08
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Lisa, you have the heart of a poet and the eye of a creative master. Of course none of us have the answers and all are or have been in a similar situation and can only offer a big hug share a glass of wine and see you for the person you are, a uncommon woman of grace, talent and warmth that is so easy for us to see from your work and words. Perhaps in the real world it is harder for many to "see" with all the noise of living.... I know you already do but, keep the faith and know just how amazing we all know you are.
harryOB · 2008-05-13: 10:10
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Lisa, as I am catching up to this post several days later I can see that you are feeling better. This makes me sad to think how sad you were when you posted this. You are such an awesome person, so kind & caring. And so incredibly talented. Wait a minute, put Spike on the table so that he can read this: "Dear Spike, you need to give your Cat-Mom some extra special loving. Don't bite her for at least a week. And try not to eat the flowers at least until she's had a chance to take a few shots of them! And remind her often that roses aren't nearly as good as kitty loving. Me-oW!" (And it cracks me up that PattyB's "dear driend" is me! I could tell you stories about what we have been through together with her love life!!)
Jannie · 2008-05-13: 17:49
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