seeing eye to eye
Marriage is such a strange concept, I think sometimes. You kind of put a hold on your own ambitions and plans because this other person is now in your life and you have to make sure "my" plans are what's best for "us" now. You can be considered selfish for pursuing something you want to do, when doing the exact same thing out of wedlock would not seem selfish at all. You may take a different career path or accept a different philosophy of life because of the "us" factor; because you are no longer "you". This is hard! Especially for a firstborn, strong-headed, been-independent-and-paid-my-own-bills-already kinda girl like me!
Love is amazing, though. I'm sorry I'm difficult sometimes, Benito! But you know you love me ;)