Sexual energy is life energy, and it should feel fun.
I’m fed up of women being shamed for embracing it.
That does not mean we have to give it up easily or even be active.
Sexual energy does not require a partner.
You can enjoy it yourself.
You can dress up nice, and give yourself a cheeky smile in the mirror.
You can dance in your bedroom and move in ways not so acceptable for the public domain.
You can have fun with it.
This is how I feel is natural.
It feels like living.
And it feels good.
Pornography messed up my perceptions of sex.
It portrays women in such a degrading light, as a completely inferior species, and often violent, it confused me for years.
It felt like a huge part of who we are had been stolen from women.
Damned if you do, damned if you don’t.
Degrade oneself or shut off a part of yourself.
I feel there is no road map to follow with this.
Perhaps through using our imaginations, and sensitivity to the topic, we can each actively create what we want it to be.
Not what we have been sold by the advertising, big business, and by people who quite frankly do not care if we enjoy our bodies, our sexuality and our essence, or not.
We need to find caring partners to do this with.
But, I’m personally not holding out for that.
I want to enjoy my sexual energy every day I can.
And I want to spend it on me.
Until I have a smile beaming all across my face.
Because thats what sexual energy does when we embrace it.
It makes us happy.