It's not only that some people hurt you, there are people who invite this suffering for themselves. If someone slaps you, you both are equally responsible for the act because you took it passively.
Your weakness is an invitation for them to hurt you, to leave you broken.
Not every word or action needs to be justified, you must shut a few doors permanently. No one is going to facilitate awards for you to be broken and beautiful.
Compassion? Have some for yourself.